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The words right and wrong carry with themselves
moral connotations. And it is not uncommon for some
people with a binge eating habit to defend it on
moral grounds.
The
assumption is that if we are not hurting anyone
else, then it's OK for us to do whatever we want,
including hurting ourselves.
Long
standing binge eating habits hurt people. The proof
is in the medical offices and morgues. Would it be
right or wrong for you to end up with a chronic
disease, or worse, as the consequence of binge
eating?
If you
do not end up with a physical disease, consider the
psychological consequences of binge eating.
If you
binge eat, then it is likely for you to routinely
experience feelings such as regret, guilt and
self-loathing
For
binge eaters their emotional problems are only
masked by pleasant tasting foods. They don't go away
and continue to wait for a resolution. Binge eating
makes it temporarily unnecessary to face
reality. Yet reality does not go away. And with each
dodging manoeuvre it becomes even more difficult to
face it the next time. And so binge eating
escalates.
Fundamentally reality is impossible to escape. And
waiting for the "right" time to begin facing it is
an exercise in self deception. The belief that life
will get easier if you wait long enough is false.
You
have to do something about your unexamined painful
feelings. If you don't, they will do something
to you, by taking you in self destructive directions
that are even more unpleasant than where you are
heading now.
This
is a sobering message. But, it should be taken to
heart. Begin the process of resolving your painful
feelings as soon as possible.
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